Thoughts On… Bloging

Through the blogs we can peek into each other’s life. We get to see how much we have in common, at the same time see how different we are. We pour our heart and soul into it, so that it might be an accurate representation of who we are. Some choose to represent the feelings and facts directly, while others choose to put them into poems and stories. In time, our lives would be the most well recorded documents known to men.

Thoughts On… Sweet

Sweet is a feeling that comes from within.
Sweet is understanding what another is going through.
Sweet is when you think about how the other person feels.
Sweet is going out of your way to do something nice for another.
Sweet is doing all the little things that appears not to make any difference.
Sweet is a cause of closeness between two people.
Sweet is wishing best to someone you care deeply about.
Sweet is known at the moment you experience it.
Sweet is giving up your own cause to support another’s.
Sweet is a feeling you can never have too much of.

Thoughts On… Thoughts, Experience, Life

As I impart my thoughts and experience I wish you will grow and expand on it. Treasure life, cherish friends, build powerful memories and live into your dream. One day, when you look back, I wish you may say you have led a good life.

Thoughts On…Looking Forward to Something

As you wonder from day to day, doing the things you usually do. Is there something that you are looking forward to? A break at the end of the day? A friend that place a smile on your face? A loved one waiting for you? A vocation in a few weeks? How important these things are! They are fuel that keeps us running. They are our balance in our unbalance world. I wish each of you do have something to look forward to, and that you truly treasure them.

-Was inspired by my sister MJ to note these words.

Thoughts On… Masks

We put on masks in life, one for each aspect of it. Perhaps one for work, perhaps one for friends, perhaps one impress a love one, perhaps one for family and maybe even one for the in-laws. But don’t let the mask control you, you are the actor behind the mask, you can always decide what to do.

Thoughts On… Soul Touching

How many times do we get to walk through life and meet someone that can touch our soul? Isn’t he or she not soul mate that we should hang on to? After all, what deeper connection can two people share other then each others souls, and feelings from within? It is a crazy and childish idea to those who haven’t felt it, but it is the deepest connection for those that truly felt it.

Thoughts On… Break Up

When the relationship ends, there are heart breaks, heart aches, even feelings of revenge or really hurting the other (one you use to love!)
I urge you to be the bigger person, see past this… see beyond all of this… picture yourself when you are 50 or 75… You would look back and say what? or feel what? The point is to clear your head first before doing anything that you will regret.

I hope you can always focus on the good moments, because they are the only ones worth remembering. The most beautiful love stories are the ones where the couple couldn’t be together, The Bridges of Madison County for example or Brokeback Mountain. Who is to say that they will live happily ever after if they really had the chance? But they sure had a bunch of happy memories to live by! So in you relationships remember those moments.

-Inspired by a conversation with Shanel Chen and Steve Chen

Thoughts On… Commute

When you are considering for a new job, pleases take the location in to account. If you live too far from the office the traveling time be like a pay cut. Lets say your hourly rate is 20$ for 8 hrs, and it takes you 1 hour of round trip commute, then you are affectively making 17.77$ an hour. Lets say your round trip commute takes 2 hours, then your hourly rate drops down to 16$ an hr. However if you are like my friend who has to take a bus and 3 trains, each way, just to get to work; spending total of 3 hrs on commute, then your pay is only 14.54$ an hour. So if possible, find a job that is close by so it will not feel like you are wasting you life away on public transportation or sitting in traffic!

-Inspired by L L & T T

Thoughts On… Life Insurance

Life insurance is indirectly trying to murder people. With insurance, the more financial hardship you have towards your family or your love ones, the more likely you will commit suicide.

-Inspired by L L

Thoughts On… Food

I realize recently that it is important to improve the quality of my meals.
It is a miserable life to eat the same all the time and what’s worse is they are often garbage food.
Considering we only have a limited amount of food that can be digested during our lifetime, need to feed ourselves better

-Inspired by Xiaolu Li